HUG A CRITIC – ‘Criticism’ is the essence of life.

Criticism is not just a point of view; it’s a catalyst for individual growth, intellectual expansion, and social evolution. Although it may initially feel uncomfortable, its transformative power makes it invaluable, shaping us and our work.

Criticism is valuable when prolific, specific, and delivered with good intent. Receiving criticism requires openness and understanding to separate valuable insights from unproductive negativity. Embracing criticism as a tool unlocks new opportunities for learning, refining, and outshining in life.

Criticism is the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes. It’s the analysis and judgement of the merits and demerits of a literary work of art.

Our worth is the attitude that sparkles or devalues us like a stone and doesn’t suffer because of someone’s blind eye. A scrupulous rub by the critic’s positive expression polishes the mirror and glorifies us.

Every day, we encounter criticism from various people from all corners. Criticism is like some people’s legacy who don’t relinquish their self-proclaimed verdict on upgrading or condemning everything around them.

Like the coin’s two facets, Criticism can be Positive and heartwarming or Negative, with mind-boggling and undesirable vibes.

I have been writing poetry since school. However, the unpublished poems were embalmed in the diary’s greasy pages. The poems begged superlative adulation when narrated to an audience one day. I valued myself as good until a Critic confronted me and showed me the mirror. His positive and apt suggestions improved my style and content.

Critics’ role emerged around the 17th century and gained widespread recognition in the 19th and 20th centuries. The Victorian poet and critic Mathew Arnold (1822- 1888) was the first modern critic. Literary criticism is thought to have existed as far back as the classical period, the 4^th Century.

Critics play a crucial role in modern times by combining theatre, cinema, literature, and art. They often have specific columns allocated to them on page 3, and their reviews can significantly influence public opinion. However, their authenticity and critical genuineness can be plagued by politics, red tape, and monetary remuneration, which readers should be aware of when considering their critiques.

The essence of sincere criticism lies in creation, not fault-finding. Critics play a crucial and appreciated role in our creative process, much like the Sun and Rain nurture a flower’s bloom. Their insights, like the elements, help us grow and improve.

Don’t let criticism distract you. Some people’s only taste of success is criticising. Tolerance is the key to understanding criticism and preparing for something new or exciting. Instead of getting upset, value criticism as a positive sign that someone noticed your efforts and made a difference in your life.

There is a breed that finds faults in whatever they can lay their paws on. At cultural functions, Mr X would sit in a corner, uttering the choicest negative comments about the stage performances: Music and dances. Such self-imposed critics are pathetic and are social rogues. ‘It’s easier to be critical than to be correct.’ Such superfluous critics are unhappy about their mundane lives and boost their sagging egos by criticising things they can’t even comprehend correctly.

Dealing with self-imposed critiques —

*Don’t take anything personally — Ignore it or avoid it. It’s about them, not you, and it reflects their insecurities and not their worth.

*Analyse the comments – don’t think of ‘what’ is said . . . concentrate on ‘how’ it is said.

*Comprehend the honesty of the comment – At least he is not fake.

* Hug them for their misadventures – They need it badly.

Self-criticism is a boon and a positive endeavour. It’s not about self-doubt; it’s about self-awareness of your strengths and weaknesses. When done optimistically and inspiringly, it can be a powerful tool for personal growth and improvement. To achieve perfection, the mind must constantly evaluate one’s intellect and emotional insight following a smooth, stress-free journey.

Self-criticism of a higher dimension is mentally challenging and can be grossly detrimental. In excess, it can lead to depression and mental molestation. Such people find fault in themselves, developing a tendency to sulk. It’s vital to balance self-criticism with self-compassion, focusing on personal growth rather than perfection.

Balancing Self-criticism—

*Focus on constructive, solution-oriented feedback rather than self-blame.

*Acknowledge your achievements alongside areas for improvement.

 Quote of the Day – “Do what! Feel in your heart to be right, for you will be criticised anyway. You will be damned if you don’t.” ELEANOR ROOSEVELT.

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