A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
When we think and yearn for something positive to happen, we indeed behold a negative thought by nurturing a farce expectation. Because positivity might elude us by giving us stress and yielding a negative experience. If we accept negativity gracefully, we become positive in our approach. There is affirmation and the zest to combat an …
Criticism is not just a point of view; it’s a catalyst for individual growth, intellectual expansion, and social evolution. Although it may initially feel uncomfortable, its transformative power makes it invaluable, shaping us and our work. Criticism is valuable when prolific, specific, and delivered with good intent. Receiving criticism requires openness and …
Letting go of past mistakes, regrets, or outdated beliefs is the key to personal growth and development. While the past shapes one’s future, clinging to it can hinder one from embracing new opportunities or becoming the best version of oneself. Outgrowing the past doesn’t just mean forgetting it. It means learning from it and moving …
Why should you chase someone? Is it a pursuit of monetary gains, societal status, or emotional gratitude in a relationship? What if the chase culminates in compromising your self-respect? Rather be the catch or the prime cut. Let yourself be the flag holder with magnified self-esteem. We depend upon people, situations, and relationships throughout our …
Adulation is virtuous, but excessive praise or admiration is hypocritical and exaggerated. While adulation may seem positive on the surface, it can lack legitimacy and be motivated by a yearning to advantage favour or manipulation rather than genuine appreciation. While everyone enjoys adulation and physical admiration, it is crucial to guard against transforming genuine praise into flattery …
When I talk of Mediocrity, it’s certainly not about middle-class living or an endeavor to survive and earn bread. Talent, for that matter, is not about stashing millions of green bills or procuring expensive commodities. Mediocrity swamps a person when his thoughts turn mediocre and he starts thinking small and insignificant, defying the urge to …
Pull out any Literature or Epic of any religion or cult, you will find mentions of Gurus, Disciples, and Ashrams. Time has snatched the spirit of selfless education and now we witness Tutors, Students, Tuition, Coaching, and Tutorials. Is education progressing or are we missing the essence and soul of teaching? The present education …
Chastity is spiritual purity and virtue related to modesty, fidelity, and temperance. It typically involves self-control and respect for oneself and others. It is an act of personal discipline that reflects a deep dedication to higher perseverance, dealing with faithfulness in a relationship or spiritual faith. Is Chastity only to practice Abstinence and take a vow of …
Is CHASTITY only to practice Abstinence and take a vow of Celibacy? Is it the self-proclaimed preaching of purity, innocence, and modesty? Is chastity merely the forte of Yellow Saffron Sadhus, Church Persona, Monks, and Maulvis? Is chastity a strength or is it just a forced ritual to reveal a clean social image? CHASTITY, to …
How to define a ‘TRUE’ friendship? Is there something like ‘true’ in a relationship? Friendship in itself beholds a sea of meaning and empathy. ‘TRUE’ then just justifies the already existing understanding of human behavior in an alliance. Why are men bad at sustaining a meaningful and TRUE friendship? Are women better at keeping …