RELIGION—a fear of God or a soulful commitment?

  The enduring entwinement of religion and fear —a relationship that has shaped human societies since the dawn of humanity —is a topic of profound significance. The values taught often revolve around fear, divine punishment, fear of supreme power, and fear of death. These elements have significantly shaped our understanding of these profound concepts, sparking …

      A FLURRY OF DREAMS — and ATTAINMENT OF GOALS.

   Dreams and goals are personal aspirations that motivate and guide us through life. Dreams are more abstract, representing our deepest desires or visions for the future. Conversely, Goals are more specific and actionable steps that empower us to turn dreams into reality. They can range from short-term objectives like learning skills to building a …

LUCK IS AN ACCIDENT — Happens to the Competent.

‘Luck is not just a random event; it’s a belief. It’s believing that you are lucky.’ This belief inspires and motivates you to achieve great things, reminding you that luck is not just a chance event but a mindset that can drive you towards success. Luck is like a game, where a favourable or fortunate …

TANTRUMS – Are you a Victim? SEVEN WAYS to deal with it–

Are you the one tossing a tantrum OR the one dealing with or tolerating it? ……. When a tantrum occurs, it’s a moment of emotional overwhelm, often characterised by yelling, crying, or aggressive behaviour towards the victim. This outburst is a response to frustration or a lack of control, a sign that the person struggles …

WHAT’S MY RELEVANCE – IS SOCIAL MEDIA A BAROMETER?

What is our relevance to society, our families, or to ourselves? This question often plagues us, especially in a world where societal judgment and social media metrics dictate our worth. It’s not about finding relevance and perfection-imperfection in the people or objects around us—it’s about embarking on a personal journey of self-acceptance. Instead of seeking …

I FEEL IMPORTANT – Is it Arrogance or my Self-respect?

Feeling important is a powerful emotion that can catalyse personal growth and self-awareness. It often arises from recognition, value, or the understanding that one’s actions have an impact. Recognizing one’s intrinsic worth, understanding one’s strengths, and acknowledging one’s contributions are pivotal steps in this journey. However, feeling important can stem from either arrogance or self-respect, …

The Emotional Dynamics of ‘Wanting’ and ‘Needing’ (in Relationships).

‘Do you want me … or do you need me? ‘Needing’ and ‘Wanting’ in a relationship are not just words; they signify distinct emotional states and levels of dependability. Understanding this difference is crucial in navigating the complexities of relationships, and it can make you feel more informed and knowledgeable about your own emotional needs. …

SACRIFICE Versus RENUNCIATION— Our choice, what we want?

Sacrifice classically encompasses giving up something valued for a more significant cause or purpose, often with the wisdom of duty or commitment. Renunciation, on the other hand, is a journey of self-discovery and personal evolution. It’s a voluntary act of letting go or abandoning something, often to pursue spiritual or personal growth. Unlike sacrifice, renunciation …